I just might start doing this more often. Ileana often finds things I wouldn't really look for. And then when I come across it, well, the mind races. So let's start with this article
Ways to Learn From Others' Divorces
Which frankly, this title is better than the one the writer ominously used.
The article derives 16 sources with 16 points. Although some are arguably overlapping, a lot of the problems are commonly mentioned in this line of work. So I get to thinking, how many of those points would need to present to go from - "This is a frustrating part of our relationship", to "Our relationship is starting to get rocky", to "We're on the verge of falling apart".
Interestingly, I wonder if a system like the DSM's method of diagnosis becomes viable. If x number of 16 are present, bring up the yellow and the red flags.